I hundeverdenen findes der et væld af adfærdsmønstre, som hunde deler, herunder at snuse til ansigtet, snuse til bagdelen, logre med halen og slikke, men vigtigst af alt er der aldrig kram. Hunde har særlige måder at hilse på, og ingen af dem indebærer at lægge et forben over hinandens skulder. Faktisk betyder det, der kommer tættest på kram, som vi kender dem, noget helt andet end venskab. Når hunde står over hinanden, handler det om en form for social status og konkurrence om ressourcer, så kram betragtes som en form for magtudøvelse og kontrol.
Selvom kram forbindes med leg og ikke nødvendigvis noget aggressivt, kan hundeadfærdseksperter opfatte et kram som en meget bestemt og kontrollerende adfærd. Derfor bliver mange ejere og andre mennesker oftest bidt i forbindelse med tilsyneladende harmløse interaktioner som at kæle, kramme eller bøje sig ind over hunden.
Årsagen til vores hundes medfødte modvilje mod menneskelige kram ligger i, at mennesker og primater værdsætter kontakt fra mave til mave eller bryst til bryst, som ubevidst forbindes med de behagelige følelser ved amning. Hunde har ikke den samme positive association og sætter derfor ikke naturligt pris på denne form for kontakt. Vi lægger armene om en andens skuldre som et tegn på hengivenhed, men i hundeverdenen er et ben over skulderen et tegn på dominans eller selvhævdelse. Derfor er det forståeligt, at når vi forsøger at kramme en ny eller ukendt hund, kan den misforstå gestussen som truende og enten løbe væk, underkaste sig eller tage udfordringen op.
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Yes, our 7yr-old Chocolate Lab (Hershey) does exactly this. We've always thought that maybe it was because he felt a banded from his early family, and now we know.
We will certainly approach Hershey with different styles of love other than hugging. You should do a follow-up on the best techniques used to express love for our dogs.
We deeply love our dog, Hershey. Thank you very much for the great advice...WOOF!
This is not always the case. Our dog Tori hugs my husband. She gets up on his lap, puts her paws around his neck and lays her head on his shoulder. Then she gives him kisses and lays down to watch tv. She is not being dominant at all. She has watched me do it and she liked what she saw so she does it too.
Just like Bonnie watched Animal Planet one day and saw a show on water Buffaloes and now he paws the dirt and charges when he plays.
Some dogs do like to be hugged by anyone, some are only wanting that affection from their own people and there are some dogs who just do not want that kind of closeness. There are people like that too. Do not like to be crowded. It's normal.
Always get to know your dog. If it does not like hugs let people know it prefers it's space. Knowing your dog is over half the battle.
I have been to homes that I know more about their dog in 5 minutes then they know from having it for years.
My dog puts his paws on my shoulders knowing I will hug him. However one of my smaller dogs hates be hugged. I think this depends on the dogs personality.
Our dog, Tex has such a great disposition and enjoys all contact with us. He will lie on my stomach with paws outstretched and be in bliss mode as you pat him. Never growled in the two years we have had him. Don't really think your assertion has much validity with dogs I have owned. Don't doubt it but haven't experienced it.
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